Hey, Guys. it's been a very long time since I've posted something... We've been bringing you everything from the hand-lettering ideas to watercolour techniques lately. But this time it's going to be some "Preach work"... Yeah, you heard it right. Have you ever been in a situation that people around you think that they can use you as a silly little moron whenever they want, take you for granted and then toss you into the trashcan? Then you are in the right place. So without further ado, I am going to tell you "5 Steps to NOT GIVE A SHIT!"
Number 1
Realize that you are too hard on yourself to give a damn.
That's the first step you need to know. As long as you keep going on with the stuff by adjusting with it, you will be the one to suffer.
Number 2
Forgive and forget! Umm no...
Letting that shit go does not always mean turning a blind eye to it. Sometimes, you need to raise your voice and put "people" back to their places. Because if you don't stand for yourself, then who will?
Number 3
Stop being a mommy
Yeah. This is something I learned from my personal experiences. Often, in the wrong impression of being a good girl, like in the fairytale, I end up being people's mommy. You know how mommies are. Sympathetic, unconditional and selfless. Believe me, you will be screwed if you don't stop doing this. Until you don't resign from your mommy post, they will keep treating you like you are their domestic help. So peeps, there is serious shit going on and you gotta handle it soon...
Number 4
Let them realize... And if they don't? Make them realize!
That's the worst thing you can do! NEVER ever follow rule number four in your life. Because bitches gonna never realize, and the dogs.... duh! Forget it! Most of the people who take you for granted already know they are. And they know how to. And how do you them stop from letting this happen? Just say NO! Loves, you gotta learn how to do that. Trust me it is not that difficult. It takes a lot of time, a lot of time, let me emphasize. But it's worth all the struggle. And it's really comforting.
Number 5
Let that shit go!
If people around you are morons, be another moron. A difficult one. Be hard on them, not on yourself. Be impossible. And show them the taste of their own medicine.
A Wise Person once said, Just chuck it and move on.
Well, that's what you guys gotta do... Goodbye folks.
Number 1
Realize that you are too hard on yourself to give a damn.
That's the first step you need to know. As long as you keep going on with the stuff by adjusting with it, you will be the one to suffer.
Number 2
Forgive and forget! Umm no...
Letting that shit go does not always mean turning a blind eye to it. Sometimes, you need to raise your voice and put "people" back to their places. Because if you don't stand for yourself, then who will?
Number 3
Stop being a mommy
Yeah. This is something I learned from my personal experiences. Often, in the wrong impression of being a good girl, like in the fairytale, I end up being people's mommy. You know how mommies are. Sympathetic, unconditional and selfless. Believe me, you will be screwed if you don't stop doing this. Until you don't resign from your mommy post, they will keep treating you like you are their domestic help. So peeps, there is serious shit going on and you gotta handle it soon...
Number 4
Let them realize... And if they don't? Make them realize!
That's the worst thing you can do! NEVER ever follow rule number four in your life. Because bitches gonna never realize, and the dogs.... duh! Forget it! Most of the people who take you for granted already know they are. And they know how to. And how do you them stop from letting this happen? Just say NO! Loves, you gotta learn how to do that. Trust me it is not that difficult. It takes a lot of time, a lot of time, let me emphasize. But it's worth all the struggle. And it's really comforting.
Number 5
Let that shit go!
If people around you are morons, be another moron. A difficult one. Be hard on them, not on yourself. Be impossible. And show them the taste of their own medicine.
A Wise Person once said, Just chuck it and move on.
Well, that's what you guys gotta do... Goodbye folks.
I really envy you fir the way you handle your problems and move on 🙂. Thanks for these intresting advice.
ReplyDeleteThat's sweet. I m glad this helps!
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